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INTP

Relationship Tips for INTPs

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Introducción

Relationships are a continual interplay of giving, receiving, and compromising. Although every MBTI type has its strengths and weaknesses, your type need not determine your behavior. Moving outside your comfort zone opens up the opportunity for healthy personal and interpersonal development. There are certain human needs that are universal and this makes it possible for any two types to connect with one another. If two people are willing to lower their defenses and genuinely attend to each other’s needs, then the relationship has a great chance for success and happiness.

Consejos por Tipo de Pareja

💑INTP + INTP
  • Don’t compare your relationship with anyone else’s or with society’s ideal of what a perfect relationship ought to be.
  • Be willing to discuss your feelings and fears with each other. Listen attentively and respectfully when your partner shares.
  • Strive to be as competent in understanding and working with your partner as you are in your professional life.
  • Find common interests so you don’t become too disconnected. Ask about your partner’s day and share stories and details.
  • Take turns managing boring or mundane household chores. Figure out a fair and equitable distribution of labor.
  • Be willing to participate in each other’s activities and events. Look at this as a way of understanding your partner better.
  • Watch your tendency to be critical, sarcastic, or too competitive with each other or to debate issues past the point where it is fun for both partners.
  • Enjoy your mutual desire to debate and argue but realize that you don’t always need to win.
💑INTP + ESTJ
  • Realize that your partner cannot read your mind and wants to know what you are thinking. Explain that you are processing information internally and simply need more time.
  • Watch your tendency to be cynical and avoid sarcastic comments.
  • Respect the routines that are most important to your partner and do your best not to upset them.
  • Compliment your partner on all that he or she does to make your life comfortable and safe. Appreciate your mate’s efforts and tangible accomplishments.
  • Tell other people how great your partner is. ESTJs may receive third-party compliments with more credibility than direct ones.
  • Work toward being on time and following through on projects. Do your share of the household chores.
  • Avoid the tendency to overanalyze everything, looking for flaws and faults. Try to just enjoy the moment.
💑INTP + ISTJ
  • Beware of your tendency to be vague or abstract. Try to stick to the subject at hand and present your points in a step-by-step fashion.
  • Respect your partner’s need for order and predictability. Try to give him or her as much advance notice as possible when you need to change plans.
  • Don’t put your partner on the spot publicly or question his or her authority or competence in front of others.
  • Try to finish projects you start in a timely manner. Keep common areas of your home free of clutter, piles, and mess.
  • Thank your partner for all the things he or she does to keep your life moving along smoothly and efficiently.
💑INTP + ESFJ
  • Be gentle and diplomatic, especially when discussing unpleasant subjects or problems.
  • Share specific details about your day, especially the people involved.
  • Demonstrate that you’re listening by making comments. Maintain eye contact and stay physically close.
  • Express your feelings and appreciation in words. Compliment your partner on the many things he or she does to make your home happy and comfortable.
  • Initiate and then follow through on chores and projects. Don’t leave things unfinished, and always pick up after yourself.
  • Be willing to discuss issues even after you think they’re settled. Indulge your partner’s need to figure things out aloud.
  • Never dismiss your partner’s feelings, even if they don’t seem logical.
💑INTP + ISFJ
  • Make an effort to get to know the people your partner cares about. Listen carefully for details about co-workers, family, and friends, and respond to discussions about them.
  • Express your appreciation for the myriad ways your partner takes good care of you, your home, and your family.
  • Be patient with your partner’s sensitivity and need for harmony in all his or her relationships.
  • Respect your partner by accommodating his or her need for structure and routine.
  • Initiate discussions about feelings and values. If you need time to think things through before sharing, tell your partner — don’t just clam up.
  • Try to pick up after yourself, pull your own weight regarding chores, and finish projects you start.
  • Watch your tendency to be dismissive and superior.
💑INTP + ESTP
  • Participate in as many social activities with your partner as you can. When you aren’t in the mood, encourage your partner to go without you.
  • Share your thoughts and ideas. Discuss the events of your day, include your partner in your projects, and invite your partner to tell you about his or her day.
  • Watch your tendency to get lost in your work or inside your head. Take a break and go have some fun with your partner.
  • Compliment your partner on tangible things such as looks and the many things he or she does to make your home more comfortable or your life more fun.
  • Be specific and clear. Let your partner know when you are changing subjects. Try not to skip over important details.
💑INTP + ISTP
  • Encourage your partner’s physical pursuits and interests. Try to participate in as many of them as you can.
  • Try to focus on the here and now and pay attention to the experiences of the moment. Listen fully and completely when your partner is telling you something important.
  • Compliment your partner on his or her ability to bring fun and adventure to your life.
  • Show your partner that you appreciate him or her by doing thoughtful things to make life easier. Make a nice meal or surprise your partner with a special treat.
  • Watch your tendency to act superior or condescending.
  • Be physically available to your partner. Offer back rubs and spontaneous lovemaking.
💑INTP + ESFP
  • Respect your partner’s need for and love of fun. Try to accommodate him or her as much as possible.
  • Give your partner your full attention when he or she is telling you how he or she feels. Don’t dismiss your partner’s feelings as overreactions just because you don’t share them.
  • Be willing to share what you’re feeling and experiencing. Try writing notes.
  • Encourage your partner to respond to life’s opportunities spontaneously and to enjoy his or her free time.
  • Watch your tendency to debate everything. Be willing to let some inconsistencies go without pointing them out.
  • Be positive. Express your appreciation of the many things your partner does to make you happy.
  • If your partner is the one responsible for maintaining the household, try to do your share and take over some of his or her tasks.
💑INTP + ISFP
  • Express your thoughts, feelings, and reactions freely.
  • Begin with the positive. Appreciate the many ways your partner brings warmth and happiness to your life and helps you find fun in everyday things.
  • Smile, sit close, and touch your partner when talking, especially when you’re discussing unpleasant topics.
  • Listen attentively to the stories your partner tells, even if they are about people you don’t know. Try to remember the personal details.
  • Tell your partner when you need time alone so he or she doesn’t misinterpret your absence or silence as rejection.
💑INTP + ENTJ
  • Initiate discussions, physical intimacy, household chores, and activities of all sorts.
  • Try to participate in activities and social events that are important to your partner.
  • Share what you’re thinking, feeling, and want. Remember, it’s really important to your partner to have regular discussions of substance, depth, and importance.
  • Ask your partner’s advice and invite his or her input and opinions.
  • Try to be patient with your partner’s slower adaptation time. Give him or her as much notice of a change in plans as possible.
  • Try to be prompt. Strive to finish more of the projects you start.
💑INTP + INTJ
  • Be sure to give your partner the time and space he or she needs to think things through without interruption.
  • Honor your commitments. Work at being prompt and following through on chores.
  • Try to pick up after yourself and leave common areas neat.
  • Initiate outings. Don’t allow other things to interfere with time set aside for the two of you.
  • Try to make decisions and not leave issues unsettled for too long.
  • Respect your partner’s schedules, routines, and rituals.
💑INTP + ENTP
  • Surprise your partner with unexpected get-togethers. Be willing to drop by to see friends.
  • Encourage your partner to go out with friends and continue to meet new people even if you don’t accompany him or her.
  • Respect your partner’s need to gather information by talking to a lot of people even after you’ve offered your opinion.
  • Brainstorm with your partner. Remember that he or she needs to talk to clarify his or her positions, so listen with enthusiasm.
  • Listen patiently to your partner’s sometimes long-winded and dramatic stories.
💑INTP + ENFJ
  • Talk, talk, and talk some more! Try to remember some of the people details of your partner’s stories to show that you are really listening.
  • If you need to disengage, let your partner know that’s what you’re doing so he or she won’t take it personally.
  • Offer your partner a periodic “weather report” about how you are feeling. Let him or her know if you’re still mulling something over and need more time before talking about it.
  • Apologize when you know you’ve hurt your partner’s feelings. Don’t dismiss his or her feelings, even if they don’t make sense to you.
  • Offer gentle suggestions rather than blunt criticism. Begin with a positive statement.
  • Try to be prompt and to finish some of the projects you start.
💑INTP + INFJ
  • Talk! Share your feelings and your personal reactions to events.
  • Offer your opinions and demonstrate that you are really listening to your partner. Give him or her your undivided attention. Sit close and maintain eye contact.
  • Offer expressions of affection — words or physical touching that is affectionate but not necessarily a prelude to sex.
  • Be sure to include your partner in some of your projects or activities. Share what’s going on and solicit his or her insights.
  • Never dismiss your partner’s feelings as illogical or overblown.
  • Pitch in to initiate and finish household chores, especially after you offer to.
  • Be where you say you will be and try not to be late.
  • Compliment your partner on his or her good ideas and creativity.
💑INTP + ENFP
  • Share your feelings and experiences and the events of your day. Respond to your partner and make sure he or she knows you are involved.
  • Don’t dismiss your partner’s reactions or feelings as overly dramatic or illogical simply because you don’t share them.
  • Take time to listen to your partner’s concerns without immediately making suggestions for how to fix them.
  • Initiate household chores and follow through on the ones for which you are responsible.
  • Be sure to encourage your partner to get together with his or her friends and socialize as much as he or she wants, with or without you.
  • Compliment your partner for his or her creativity and insights. Appreciate the warmth and harmony your mate brings to your life.
  • Express your feelings. Say “I love you” a lot!
💑INTP + INFP
  • Don’t put off discussing important things, but do so gently and lovingly.
  • Watch your tendency to be overly critical and analytical and to find fault with your partner’s reasoning.
  • Sit close to your partner when talking about conflict. Touch and smile. Start by expressing the positive things before the negative.
  • Express your gratitude and appreciation of all the ways your partner nurtures and supports you. Do it in writing if that’s easier for you.
  • Compliment your partner’s efforts in all things, such as finishing projects, initiating plans, and striking out independently.
  • Don’t dismiss your partner’s feelings, even if you don’t understand them.
  • Never ask your partner to compromise on his or her personal values and beliefs.

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