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INFP

Relationship Tips for INFPs

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Introducción

Relationships are a continual interplay of giving, receiving, and compromising. Although every MBTI type has its strengths and weaknesses, your type need not determine your behavior. Moving outside your comfort zone opens up the opportunity for healthy personal and interpersonal development. There are certain human needs that are universal and this makes it possible for any two types to connect with one another. If two people are willing to lower their defenses and genuinely attend to each other’s needs, then the relationship has a great chance for success and happiness.

Consejos por Tipo de Pareja

💑INFP + INFP
  • Avoid nagging each other. Find a fair and reasonable division of labor and try to stick with it.
  • Tell the whole truth, even if you’re worried it will hurt your partner’s feelings.
  • Be willing to deal completely with crucial issues right away. Never allow things to fester.
  • Give each other space and time alone.
  • Recognize your partner’s efforts and accomplishments.
  • Don’t assume that your partner knows how much you appreciate him or her. Express your appreciation regularly.
  • Remember that when you are angry, it’s often because you’re hurt. Tell the truth about how you feel.
  • Try writing letters if you find it difficult to express your complicated feelings orally.
💑INFP + ESTJ
  • Clean or organize something. Initiate chores around the house.
  • Finish projects you start or pack them up out of sight.
  • Respect your partner’s desire to have a regular routine. Don’t disrupt important rituals.
  • Thank your partner for all that he or she does to make your home comfortable and orderly. Appreciate your mate’s tangible contributions.
  • Try to be direct and calm, especially when you are upset. Get right to the point and try not to overreact.
  • Tell your partner when you need time alone to recharge or to think about what’s wrong. Don’t disappear and withdraw when there are problems to be discussed.
💑INFP + ISTJ
  • Try to be on time and accountable so your partner doesn’t worry about you or isn’t inconvenienced.
  • Do what you say you will. Follow through on your commitments.
  • Finish the projects you start. Put things away when you’re finished using them.
  • Compliment your partner on tangible things. Thank your mate for all the little things he or she does to keep your life on an even keel.
  • Be careful with money. Remember to record checks in the register and balance the checkbook.
  • Once you agree on a course of action, try not to change or abandon plans in midstream. If your plans change, give your partner as much warning as possible.
💑INFP + ESFJ
  • Look for things that need to be done around the house, then do them. Pitch in and share household chores so your partner will be finished sooner and can relax.
  • Share your thoughts and feelings. Express yourself verbally.
  • Be sure to tell your partner (in words) that you appreciate all the effort he or she puts into making your life run smoothly.
  • If you need more time to think something through, let your partner know so that he or she won’t think you either don’t care or have no opinion.
  • Initiate discussions, intimacy, and projects. Act on your impulses.
  • Agree to get out and do social things with your partner from time to time.
💑INFP + ISFJ
  • Be specific, especially when discussing things that bother you.
  • Respect your partner’s traditions, rituals, and routines. Don’t disrupt your partner’s schedule.
  • Try not to change plans without plenty of warning.
  • Respect your partner’s need for a neat and tidy environment. Be especially careful to maintain order in the common areas of your home.
  • Express your appreciation of the day-to-day things your partner does, such as paying bills, keeping things in working order, and preparing for holidays.
  • Find time to enjoy the physical activities you both enjoy.
💑INFP + ESTP
  • Be explicit, literal, and direct. Don’t expect your partner to read your mind.
  • Be clear about your feelings. Be honest and up-front about problems as they arise.
  • Try not to hold grudges. Instead, try to move forward with forgiveness.
  • Be willing to occasionally try some of the more adventurous experiences your partner suggests. Relax and have fun.
  • Encourage your partner to get the social stimulation he or she needs, even if you don’t always participate.
  • Try to keep the small things small and not to blow things out of proportion.
💑INFP + ISTP
  • Give your partner plenty of freedom and space. Be sure your partner doesn’t have to account for how he or she spends his or her spare time.
  • Don’t nag. Be clear, calm, and direct about what you need or want, then let your partner do it (without reminders).
  • Let your partner play — and be willing to play with him or her.
  • Compliment your partner’s looks. Tease your partner to keep things light and let him or her tease you, too.
  • Be selective about which issues you are compelled to work out. Once something is resolved, don’t rehash it.
💑INFP + ESFP
  • Try to relax and go with the flow.
  • Be clear and specific about what you need or want and when you need or want it.
  • Don’t assume that your partner’s light attitude implies a lack of deep feelings.
  • Avoid criticism. Be loving yet specific and clear.
  • Be patient with your partner’s slower process for seeing the big picture. Patiently help him or her understand what you mean.
  • Encourage your partner to participate in the many activities and opportunities he or she desires, even if they don’t always include you.
💑INFP + ISFP
  • Appreciate your partner’s gift for being in and enjoying the moment. Participate as often as you can.
  • Recognize and support your partner’s need to experience things firsthand and to learn by doing.
  • Play with your partner. Especially do physical things together.
  • Accept some things for what they are and resist the urge to analyze them and find a deeper meaning.
  • Be specific and clear, especially about things that are conceptual or esoteric. Be patient with your partner’s slower grasp of your abstract ideas.
  • Be specific and include all the pertinent details.
💑INFP + ENTJ
  • Try to remain calm when you’re expressing your feelings. Try not to repeat yourself or become overly emotional.
  • Tell your partner directly when you need him or her to listen supportively.
  • Listen for the constructive suggestions in your partner’s critiques. Remember that they are usually offered with good intentions.
  • Strive to finish some of the projects you start. Don’t leave things unsettled or up in the air for too long. Don’t leave piles or clutter in the common areas of your home.
  • Try not to change plans abruptly. Let your partner know when you are going to be late or are unable to meet as planned.
💑INFP + INTJ
  • Take a step back and try to see constructive criticism as a suggestion, not an attack.
  • Initiate discussions and be patient with your partner’s initial reluctance to share feelings. Demonstrate and model how to frame issues in a personal context.
  • Be careful with money and talk about purchases before you make them.
  • Appreciate your partner’s good ideas. Thank your partner for his or her creativity.
  • Try to be where you say you will be, when you say you will be. Call your partner when you are going to be late. (Wear a watch.)
  • Be honest and direct; don’t skirt around issues.
  • Take on household chores. Your partner will see that as a sign of affection.
💑INFP + ENTP
  • Keep it fun. Try not to get stuck in a serious mood for too long.
  • Watch your tendency to become judgmental and disapproving.
  • Express your appreciation of your partner’s excellent problem-solving skills and many creative ideas.
  • Compliment your partner on his or her accomplishments and innovations.
  • Make sure your partner has plenty of opportunities to socialize, both with and without you.
  • Initiate discussions about problems as soon as they come up. Don’t hold things in and avoid frank discussions.
💑INFP + INTP
  • Tell your partner you need a break to calm down and become rational again. Then go back and discuss things calmly and honestly.
  • Present your views logically and rationally. Try not to repeat yourself.
  • Give your partner time to think about how he or she feels about things before expecting a response.
  • Appreciate the effort your partner makes to share with you. Compliment him or her on the stimulation he or she brings to your life.
  • Initiate discussions of new and complex subjects.
  • Don’t question your partner’s competence or put him or her on the spot publicly.
💑INFP + ENFJ
  • Acknowledge the many things your partner does to please you. Thank your mate for his or her efforts and praise your partner’s high energy and productivity.
  • Be aware of your tendency to be inflexible about things that upset you.
  • Don’t withdraw when you’re feeling hurt. Express your feelings gently but also honestly and immediately.
  • If writing suits you better than talking, make a list of the things your partner does that you appreciate. Share the list with your partner.
  • Respect your partner’s need for social stimulation. Go to events when you can and encourage your partner to go to others without you.
💑INFP + INFJ
  • Try to move outside yourself to give your partner the verbal feedback and response he or she needs and wants.
  • When you need time to think about something, let your partner know so he or she won’t take your silence personally.
  • Try to be where you say you will be and work toward being on time. Call if you’re running late.
  • Watch out for piles and clutter; try to keep common areas of your home clean and neat.
  • Ask for your partner’s advice, then listen respectfully to his or her opinions.

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