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ESFP

Relationship Tips for ESFPs

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Introducción

Relationships are a continual interplay of giving, receiving, and compromising. Although every MBTI type has its strengths and weaknesses, your type need not determine your behavior. Moving outside your comfort zone opens up the opportunity for healthy personal and interpersonal development. There are certain human needs that are universal and this makes it possible for any two types to connect with one another. If two people are willing to lower their defenses and genuinely attend to each other’s needs, then the relationship has a great chance for success and happiness.

Consejos por Tipo de Pareja

💑ESFP + ESFP
  • Recognize and appreciate each other’s unique contributions.
  • Be sure to have private time, just the two of you, to talk about what’s really important.
  • Talk about feelings, both positive and negative.
  • Recognize that you both may have trouble following through on projects. Be forgiving, but do your part.
  • Take a course together or read a book on a subject that interests you both, to help you slow down and find more depth in your life.
  • Encourage each other’s new interests. Have your own hobbies and friends.
  • Don’t be afraid to take on difficult subjects. You can do it if you do it together.
💑ESFP + ESTJ
  • Appreciate your partner’s many efforts to keep your home comfortable and your life on an even keel.
  • Be patient with your partner’s need to have a structured, routine life. Don’t try to change it.
  • Make sure to keep common areas of your home neat and tidy. Take care of your and your partner’s things.
  • Be on time and follow through on your commitments.
  • Try not to push your partner’s comfort zone too much. Recognize that he or she has very different tolerances and needs from yours.
  • Take responsibility for household chores and try to do them in a timely fashion.
💑ESFP + ISTJ
  • Be careful with money. Talk over major purchases and try to live within your budget.
  • Respect your partner’s need to have a plan. Don’t spring things on him or her without notice.
  • Try to organize your time and keep to your schedule so your partner will know what to expect.
  • Be sure to give your partner plenty of time alone to pursue his or her hobbies and interests.
  • Try not to be too dramatic. Stay calm and try to be logical when discussing problems. Don’t exaggerate.
  • Don’t pressure your partner to go to as many parties or social events as you would like to attend.
  • Be sure to give your partner as much warning as possible before bringing people home for a visit.
💑ESFP + ESFJ
  • Compliment your partner on all his or her contributions and efforts.
  • Don’t be too critical, and appreciate your partner’s efforts to improve the relationship.
  • Be sure to give your partner as much appreciation as you get.
  • Respect your partner’s need for predictability, and try not to spring too many changes or surprises on your partner.
  • Give your mate as much notice as possible of your plans so he or she can prepare.
  • Be willing to deal with difficult issues and try to find a mutually satisfying solution.
  • Remember special events and holidays, and take the lead occasionally in planning them.
💑ESFP + ISFJ
  • Do things to make your partner feel cared for and loved, such as preparing special meals or remembering to ask about his or her day.
  • Listen to your partner with your full attention. Resist the urge to interrupt or try to fix a problem right away.
  • Remember to pick up after yourself and to do your part to maintain a neat and orderly home.
  • Respect your partner’s routines. Try not to change plans at the last minute.
  • Be sure to give your partner notice when you plan to be late or bring people home with you.
  • Encourage your partner to enjoy his or her friends and hobbies separately from you when you need more freedom.
  • Be patient with your partner’s more serious or quiet nature. Don’t try to make him or her lighten up.
💑ESFP + ESTP
  • Never question your partner’s loyalty. Respect his or her need for freedom.
  • Be totally honest about your feelings, especially when you feel hurt or misunderstood.
  • Express your appreciation for the many things your partner does that enrich your life.
  • Try not to compete with your partner. Instead, strive to complement each other.
  • Be direct, calm, and clear about your needs and feelings. Don’t use guilt to get what you want.
  • Be sure to have at least one or two interests or activities that you share only with each other.
💑ESFP + ISTP
  • Respect your partner’s need for privacy and space to pursue his or her interests.
  • Initiate discussions about your relationship. Don’t expect your partner to bring up problems, even if he or she is obviously unhappy.
  • Don’t ask your partner too many questions about how he or she feels. Instead, share your own feelings and ask your partner to respond.
  • Listen to your partner. Try not to interrupt.
  • Don’t assume that your partner’s sometimes cool and aloof behavior is a sign of his or her indifference. Remember that he or she cares deeply but may have trouble expressing feelings.
  • Watch your tendency to make everything light and funny. Try to take some issues seriously.
  • Don’t pressure your partner to participate in as many social activities as you might want. Be sure to encourage him or her to go off and do things alone.
  • Be aware that your partner may be more of a homebody than you are, and accept that.
💑ESFP + ISFP
  • Encourage your partner to spend time with friends and pursuing his or her interests independently.
  • Be direct and clear about your feelings. Resist the urge to nag your partner or try to pressure him or her to change.
  • Try to share your partner’s passions and hobbies. Express appreciation of his or her interests, talents, and accomplishments.
  • Be willing to slow down, and schedule time to be quiet together, even if you’re just reading in bed or watching a movie.
  • Take a course or learn a skill together. Try to be patient with your partner’s quieter and slower-paced style.
  • Try to complete the chores and projects you start.
  • Don’t insist your partner accompany you to social events. When you do go together, try not to pressure him or her to stay longer than he or she wants.
💑ESFP + ENTJ
  • Make an effort to follow through with the plans and projects you start. Finish one thing before starting another.
  • Try to be more organized and responsible. Let your partner help you.
  • Take your partner’s suggestions and constructive criticism in the spirit in which they are intended.
  • Resist the urge to be too demanding of your partner’s time and attention. Recognize that he or she has many other responsibilities and commitments.
  • Recognize your partner’s need for quiet and time to think things through. Don’t be too chatty or demand your partner’s full attention all the time.
  • Appreciate your partner’s more serious nature. Don’t always try to get your mate to lighten up.
💑ESFP + INTJ
  • Try to keep things in perspective. Don’t make mountains out of molehills.
  • Try to be neat and tidy. Put things back when you are finished using them.
  • Respect your partner’s need for time alone, and don’t take it personally.
  • Try to understand that your partner expresses his or her love in different ways. Appreciate and trust your mate’s loyalty and devotion.
  • Ask for what you want directly rather than expecting your partner to guess.
  • Try not to interrupt your partner or to push him or her to make a decision before he or she is ready.
💑ESFP + ENTP
  • Be patient with your partner’s need to analyze every possibility before acting.
  • Don’t try to force decisions before your partner is ready to make them.
  • Remember that your partner thinks out loud and enjoys talking about options, even some that may be unrealistic or far-fetched.
  • Be open to considering new ways of doing things, and try some of your partner’s more unconventional suggestions.
  • Try to be less focused on yourself and more aware of your partner’s needs and feelings.
  • Listen to your partner. Try to remember what’s important to him or her.
💑ESFP + INTP
  • Respect your partner’s need for and love of fun. Try to accommodate him or her as much as possible.
  • Give your partner your full attention when he or she is telling you how he or she feels. Don’t dismiss your partner’s feelings as overreactions just because you don’t share them.
  • Be willing to share what you’re feeling and experiencing. Try writing notes.
  • Encourage your partner to respond to life’s opportunities spontaneously and to enjoy his or her free time.
  • Watch your tendency to debate everything. Be willing to let some inconsistencies go without pointing them out.
  • Be positive. Express your appreciation of the many things your partner does to make you happy.
  • If your partner is the one responsible for maintaining the household, try to do your share and take over some of his or her tasks.
💑ESFP + ENFJ
  • Try to discuss issues and concerns. Don’t rush into a judgment or an overreaction.
  • Listen to your partner’s ideas and suggestions. Appreciate the insight and perspective he or she brings to your life.
  • Be careful not to overschedule your time and become overextended. Be sure to protect your relationship and the private time you need together.
  • Be willing to stay with a project or discussion and see it through, even if it becomes unpleasant.
  • Share your feelings with your partner. Don’t hold back your worries or fears because you don’t want to upset your mate.
💑ESFP + INFJ
  • Slow down and be patient. Listen with your whole body and being.
  • Try not to rush your partner or force him or her to make a decision before he or she is ready.
  • Respect your partner’s need for privacy and solitude.
  • Be willing to discuss the issues or conflicts that your partner brings up.
  • Don’t dismiss your partner’s perceptions of people. Respect his or her insights even if you don’t share or understand them.
  • Take on your share of the household and financial tasks. Your partner will appreciate the help.
  • Be sure to acknowledge the efforts your partner makes to make your home and life comfortable and happy.
  • Don’t get into too many relationships outside the home, and try not to become overcommitted.
💑ESFP + ENFP
  • Don’t push your partner to follow a predictable schedule.
  • Allow your partner to pursue his or her many outside activities and friendships.
  • Be willing to listen to your partner’s dreams and ideas. Don’t dismiss them even if they seem unrealistic or far-fetched.
  • Give your partner plenty of attention and physical affection.
  • Compliment your partner on his or her creative solutions to problems.
  • Be open to discussing the underlying meanings and implications of things. Try not to be too impatient.
💑ESFP + INFP
  • Be extra-gentle, patient, and understanding.
  • Be willing to slow down and allow your partner the time he or she needs to think about things before talking about them.
  • Give your partner lots of praise and encouragement. Emphasize the positive.
  • Be willing to forgo some social activities to spend quiet time alone with your partner.
  • Recognize your partner’s need for privacy and time to get in touch with his or her feelings.
  • Don’t be critical of your partner’s feelings, even when you don’t share them.
  • Try not to interrupt your partner or change the subject before he or she has had a chance to express his or her feelings completely.
  • Take an interest in your partner’s intellectual and emotional needs. Share what you read and learn with your partner.

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