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ENTP

Relationship Tips for ENTPs

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Introducción

Relationships are a continual interplay of giving, receiving, and compromising. Although every MBTI type has its strengths and weaknesses, your type need not determine your behavior. Moving outside your comfort zone opens up the opportunity for healthy personal and interpersonal development. There are certain human needs that are universal and this makes it possible for any two types to connect with one another. If two people are willing to lower their defenses and genuinely attend to each other’s needs, then the relationship has a great chance for success and happiness.

Consejos por Tipo de Pareja

💑ENTP + ENTP
  • Be sure to consider how your partner will feel about your actions rather than rushing into something new.
  • Share the responsibilities and tasks that neither of you likes to do. When it’s your partner’s turn, make sure he or she knows that you appreciate his or her efforts.
  • Praise your partner’s competence, good ideas, and clever solutions without feeling the need to improve on them.
  • Celebrate your partner’s victories. Try not to see his or her success as something you have to match.
  • Take turns wearing a watch so you’ll be on time for important appointments and not inconvenience others.
  • Find time to spend together so you can deepen your emotional connection.
💑ENTP + ESTJ
  • Demonstrate your appreciation for all the little ways your partner makes your life and home run smoothly.
  • Pitch in and do extra chores. Be sure to follow through with precision on all your commitments.
  • Respect your partner’s need for order and neatness. Be careful to keep common areas of the house tidy.
  • Watch your tendency to be too critical and arrogant with your suggestions. Remember, you could be wrong.
  • Make sure to consult your partner before acting on things or making large purchases.
💑ENTP + ISTJ
  • Don’t invite people home without checking with your partner, and give your mate as much warning as possible.
  • Slow down and try not to go in too many directions at once. Focus your energy and attention, and listen carefully when your partner is speaking.
  • Don’t skip steps, leave out vital details, or neglect to tell your partner important information.
  • Respect your partner’s need for routines and predictability. Don’t change plans suddenly or ignore rituals that he or she finds comforting.
  • Encourage your partner to spend time alone. Don’t pressure him or her to join you in every social activity.
  • Be clear when you’re changing the subject or making an abrupt transition.
  • Compliment your partner on tangible things. Express your appreciation of the stability and calm your mate brings to the relationship.
💑ENTP + ESFJ
  • Don’t dismiss your partner’s feelings as insignificant, unimportant, or overreactions.
  • Patiently give your partner as much time as he or she needs to express his or her feelings fully. Listen without trying to fix the problem.
  • Try not to change plans. Give your partner as much time as possible to adjust.
  • Ask about what is happening in your partner’s life. Listen with empathy and support.
  • Follow through on commitments. Finish the projects you start.
  • Express your appreciation of all that your partner does for you and to make your home a comfortable, warm place.
  • Try to schedule spontaneous time (such as on vacations) to make it easier for your partner not to follow a plan.
  • Plan ahead to acknowledge birthdays, anniversaries, and other events that are important to your partner.
💑ENTP + ISFJ
  • Spend quiet time with your partner doing things he or she enjoys. Give your partner your undivided attention.
  • Agree to finish a project that is important to your partner, then actually do it when you say you will! Share power. Don’t dominate or intimidate to win an argument or get your way.
  • Let your partner know in advance that you want physical intimacy so he or she can prepare for it. Anticipate your partner’s needs and watch for signs that he or she needs to reconnect emotionally.
  • Share the household chores and respect your partner’s need for your home to be clean and uncluttered.
  • Try not to be critical. Be gentle in discussing issues and start with something positive.
  • Let your partner know — in words and actions — how much you appreciate all the little things he or she does to make your home and life comfortable.
  • Don’t dismiss your partner’s tendency to worry and fret about things, especially when he or she is under stress. That is the time for gentle reassurance.
💑ENTP + ESTP
  • Respect your partner’s high physical needs and offer plenty of tactile stimulation, such as massages, back rubs, and lovemaking.
  • Don’t be condescending or act superior, and don’t dismiss your partner’s ideas or suggestions as too simplistic.
  • Give your partner plenty of facts and specifics. Show him or her how your suggestions are workable.
  • Resist the urge to analyze your partner, tell your partner what’s wrong with him or her or tell your partner how he or she can improve.
  • Practice listening attentively. Don’t immediately suggest ways for your partner to fix his or her problems.
  • Try to participate in activities your partner enjoys.
💑ENTP + ISTP
  • Slow down and explain your ideas and plans clearly. Go step-by-step, and don’t skip important facts.
  • Try to identify when you are changing subjects or making a big transition.
  • Strive to get your facts straight and be accurate.
  • Don’t pressure your partner to accompany you to all the social events you wish to attend. When your mate does accompany you, be sure to introduce him or her to people with similar interests.
  • Make it easy for your partner to opt out of social activities when he or she is too tired. Be willing to stay home and spend quiet time with your partner.
  • Respect your partner’s private nature. Don’t share personal information about your partner or your relationship with others unless your mate gives you permission.
  • Compliment your partner on his or her great common sense. Look for the thoughtful actions and gestures he or she makes to demonstrate his or her affection.
  • Try to develop an interest in your partner’s hobbies and participate whenever he or she wants you to, even if it’s just watching a TV program together.
💑ENTP + ESFP
  • Try to scale down your ideas (or the explanations of them) to realistic terms. Point out how these ideas will work and what the practical benefits will be.
  • Pay attention to some of the details around the house. Pitch in when you see your partner beginning to feel overwhelmed. Take over and give your partner some free time.
  • Be sympathetic and patient. Listen to how your partner feels and offer comfort rather than pointing out what you would do in his or her place.
  • Appreciate the many things your partner does to make life comfortable and happy. Compliment your partner on tangible things such as his or her looks and financial contributions.
  • Beware of your tendency to overwhelm, intimidate, or outgun your partner in discussions and ultimately get your way. Be fair and generous.
  • Don’t dismiss your partner’s feelings simply because you don’t share or understand them. Beware of your tendency to act intellectually superior.
💑ENTP + ISFP
  • Be patient and quiet and maintain close eye contact during discussions or conflicts.
  • Don’t expect your partner to be able to read your mind. Be clear and explicit.
  • Be affectionate, loving, and gentle. Compliment your partner on his or her efforts and for the thoughtful things he or she does for you.
  • Listen attentively to your partner, especially about his or her problems with other people. Be supportive, but don’t try to fix problems immediately.
  • Surprise your partner with romantic dinners or adventures alone together.
  • Watch your tendency to have to be the expert.
💑ENTP + INTP
  • Try not to overpower your partner when you’re debating or having a discussion. Remember that winning isn’t everything.
  • Surprise your partner with small, unusual gifts that show you understand her or him.
  • Give your partner plenty of privacy.
  • Don’t push for discussions or decisions. Respect your partner’s need to think things through fully and gather a lot of information before acting.
  • Educate yourself on the topics that interest your partner so you can discuss them intelligently.
  • Suggest a discussion time in advance so your partner will have time to clarify his or her feelings. When your partner is talking, listen carefully and respectfully.
  • Ask for your partner’s opinions and creative solutions to complex or difficult challenges.
💑ENTP + ENTJ
  • Clean something, organize something, or tidy up.
  • Make a decision and stick with it.
  • Respect and try to follow your partner’s systems. Remember to record checks in the register and keep track of shared property and resources.
  • When you feel the need to debate the merits of every option, consider bending a friend’s ear.
  • Never criticize your partner’s competence in public.
  • Call when you’re going to be late, and try not to change plans at the last minute.
  • Respect your partner’s rituals and routines.
💑ENTP + INTJ
  • Try to stick with the agreements and plans you make together. Introduce changes slowly, giving plenty of warning if possible.
  • Compliment your partner on his or her achievements. Never question your partner’s competence in public.
  • Don’t ask your partner to do or focus on more than one thing at a time. If you have a complaint, choose a time to discuss it when you aren’t interrupting your partner’s work or thoughts.
  • Try to help your partner relax. Find fun activities that appeal to his or her interests and initiate physical intimacy.
  • Don’t force or expect too much socializing. Consider bringing two cars to social events so your partner can leave early.
  • Give your partner plenty of space and time to think about things before expecting a response.
  • Try to follow rules and routines that are important to your partner.
💑ENTP + ENFJ
  • Be patient with your partner’s need to share feelings and emotional reactions, even if you’ve already heard these things before.
  • Pitch in and initiate household chores. Take the burden off your partner and demonstrate that you want to help relieve his or her stress.
  • Follow through on your commitments. Be where you say you will be, when you say you will be.
  • Be patient with your partner’s hesitancy to act spontaneously. Try to be supportive rather than critical.
  • Appreciate the many ways your partner nurtures you and takes care of you, including performing the many important maintenance and sustenance details of life.
  • Never dismiss your partner’s feelings or try to talk your mate out of how he or she feels.
💑ENTP + INFJ
  • Listen with your full attention when your partner is sharing something important.
  • Beware of your tendency to flirt. Be genuine and sincere with your partner.
  • Pitch in around the house on a regular basis. Take the initiative with chores rather than waiting to be asked to help. Finish some of the projects you start.
  • Never dismiss your partner’s feelings as overreactions. Don’t ask your partner to compromise on his or her values or strong beliefs.
  • Be on time, follow through, and don’t make promises you can’t keep.
  • Use your rational and logical approach to problem solving gently when it involves issues about which your partner is sensitive. Watch your tone of voice; don’t be condescending.
💑ENTP + ENFP
  • Be patient with your partner’s deep and intense feelings.
  • Listen patiently while your partner talks, even if his or her ideas seem illogical or disorganized.
  • Take seriously your partner’s desire to please others and nurture all his or her many relationships.
  • Be sure to establish harmony and closeness before expecting sexual intimacy.
  • Focus on the positive. Start with appreciation before offering constructive criticism.
  • Don’t place other relationships and friendships ahead of the one you share with your partner.
💑ENTP + INFP
  • Never dismiss your partner’s feelings, even if they don’t make sense or seem too extreme to you.
  • Watch your tendency to be distracted and impatient when your partner is talking. Give him or her your full attention.
  • Make sure you spend time alone with your partner rather than always including other people.
  • Express your appreciation for the emotional support and nurturing your partner readily gives you.
  • Be willing to forgo an occasional social opportunity to stay home and spend quiet, intimate time with your partner.
  • Share your feelings, fears, and insecurities to deepen your connection to your partner. Respect your partner’s privacy.

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