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ENTJ

Relationship Tips for ENTJs

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Introducción

Relationships are a continual interplay of giving, receiving, and compromising. Although every MBTI type has its strengths and weaknesses, your type need not determine your behavior. Moving outside your comfort zone opens up the opportunity for healthy personal and interpersonal development. There are certain human needs that are universal and this makes it possible for any two types to connect with one another. If two people are willing to lower their defenses and genuinely attend to each other’s needs, then the relationship has a great chance for success and happiness.

Consejos por Tipo de Pareja

💑ENTJ + ENTJ
  • Recognize that when something your partner does bothers you, it is probably because you are seeing a quality or behavior that you don’t like in yourself.
  • Consider reevaluating your priorities with regard to conflicts between career aspirations and home responsibilities.
  • Commit to spending quiet time together without a plan or agenda.
  • Take time to express your appreciation to your partner. Share your personal feelings and reactions.
  • Watch your tendency to compete. Be willing to lose an occasional argument.
  • Be willing to let down your guard and express the full range of your feelings to your partner.
  • Understand that being competent in dealing with your relationship is just as important as being competent in your career.
  • Take turns managing household chores. Create a fair yet flexible arrangement.
💑ENTJ + ESTJ
  • Thank your partner for all the little things he or she does to make your home comfortable and well run. Express your appreciation of the chores your partner does every day.
  • Respect your partner’s need for routines and predictability. Honor the rituals and holidays that are important to him or her.
  • Try to tell stories or give explanations in a step-by-step manner, and don’t leave out important details.
  • Be careful with facts and money. Balance the joint checkbook and watch your tendency to spend money on less-than-practical things.
  • Watch your tone and avoid sounding arrogant or refusing to admit you may not always be right.
💑ENTJ + ISTJ
  • Remember to give your partner plenty of time to think things through before expecting or requiring an answer. Allow your partner to share his or her thoughts when he or she is ready.
  • Demonstrate your appreciation by pitching in and doing extra chores. Be sure to follow through with precision on the things you are supposed to do.
  • Don’t skip important steps or leave out vital facts.
  • Be sure to give your partner extra time, quiet, and space when things are particularly busy or stressful.
  • Compliment your partner on his or her looks and express appreciation of the many things he or she does to keep things running smoothly.
💑ENTJ + ESFJ
  • Pay close attention to the relationship. Put your partner and family ahead of your work.
  • Try not to be critical. Appreciate the positive and be gentle with constructive criticism.
  • Don’t dismiss your partner’s feelings. Resist the urge to try to fix problems before your partner has a chance to vent his or her feelings.
  • Respect your partner’s need to maintain traditions and have things remain the same. Acknowledge and celebrate formal occasions such as birthdays and anniversaries.
  • Express your love and appreciation of all the things your partner does to nurture you.
  • Recognize your partner’s need for emotional as well as physical intimacy.
💑ENTJ + ISFJ
  • Allow your partner plenty of private time before expecting a discussion about how to resolve a problem. Never divulge personal information about your partner to others.
  • Begin by appreciating the positive. Be encouraging, gentle, and complimentary.
  • Watch your tendency for perfectionism and your desire to constantly play the devil’s advocate. Never criticize as a way of helping your partner become more effective.
  • Be generous in your expressions of affection. Offer thoughtful notes, cards, and small gifts as tokens of your affection.
  • Compliment and thank your partner for all the little things he or she does to make your home comfortable, harmonious, and well run. Express your appreciation of the amount of time your mate spent on each task (at the time it is finished).
  • Share your feelings and let your partner help you better understand your reactions and those of other people.
💑ENTJ + ESTP
  • Respect your partner’s need for freedom and encourage him or her to go off and explore at will.
  • Be willing to leave tasks unfinished from time to time to take advantage of your partner’s adventurous impulses.
  • Watch your tendency to have a secret agenda for your partner — things you want accomplished but you may not be clear and explicit about asking for.
  • Beware of your tendency to overplan and add too much structure to experiences. Don’t nag about messes or unfinished projects.
💑ENTJ + ISTP
  • Respect your partner’s need for privacy and solitude. Don’t interrupt or talk too much.
  • Try to allow for unstructured time with your partner to relax and enjoy each other’s company without an agenda or timetable.
  • Be willing to let the small stuff go and not nag your partner to complete chores or account for his or her spare time.
  • Encourage your partner to spend time alone and not feel pressured to accompany you to every social function. When your partner does participate, make sure to introduce him or her to interesting people.
  • Give your partner time to think about important issues or concerns before expecting to discuss them. Write notes.
💑ENTJ + ESFP
  • Listen, listen, and listen some more! Resist the urge to point out reasons for problems or try to fix things immediately.
  • Be patient and gentle. Accentuate the positive and express your feelings.
  • Appreciate the many ways your partner nurtures you and makes your life easier and more fun.
  • Be physically attentive to your partner. Pay close attention when he or she is talking.
  • Try to adapt to and participate in some of the adventures your partner suggests.
  • Surprise your partner by doing something spontaneous and fun.
💑ENTJ + ISFP
  • Be sure to respect your partner’s need for quiet and solitude. Don’t resist it or make him or her feel guilty for taking time alone.
  • Look for signs that your partner is feeling stressed and step in to help in some tangible and thoughtful way.
  • Express your feelings. Share your frustrations, fears, worries, and joys.
  • Avoid placing too many unreasonable demands on your partner. Recognize and compliment the efforts your partner makes.
  • Tell your partner how happy he or she makes you. Smile, sit close, hold hands, and be affectionate.
  • Don’t pressure your partner into attending social functions. When your mate does attend, introduce him or her to people.
💑ENTJ + INTJ
  • Give your partner plenty of time, space, and quiet.
  • Don’t ask your partner to do more than one thing at a time. For example, don’t try to carry on an important conversation while your partner is cooking a meal.
  • Compliment your partner on his or her ideas before evaluating or critiquing them.
  • Try not to be too bossy or controlling.
  • When something is bothering you, let your partner know and make an “appointment” to discuss it. Give your partner plenty of time to think about it first.
  • If you can afford it, hire a housekeeper or someone else to do the tasks neither of you enjoys or is good at.
  • Recognize that you and your partner may not be comfortable discussing your feelings, so be sensitive to this and supportive of each other.
💑ENTJ + ENTP
  • Don’t make a decision, then leave it up to your partner to implement it.
  • Never criticize your partner’s competence in public.
  • Encourage your partner’s freedom and curiosity. Be patient with the number of questions he or she asks.
  • Try to relax your schedule occasionally. Be willing to act on some of your partner’s spontaneous suggestions.
  • Listen to your partner’s many ideas and brainstorm possibilities together.
  • Don’t take offense when your partner asks for other people’s opinions after you’ve given yours.
💑ENTJ + INTP
  • Give your partner plenty of space and time to think things through without interruption. Respect your mate’s need to become immersed in his or her projects.
  • Allow your partner to work on tasks alone without comment or even the physical proximity of another person.
  • Encourage your partner’s need for independence, and don’t hover. INTPs need lots of privacy and the freedom to come and go as they please.
  • Try not to force decisions. Give your partner the chance to mull things over and carefully consider issues.
  • Talk less but be willing to discuss things when your partner wants to talk. Try waiting for a quiet time, then gently ask for your partner’s opinion.
  • Choose your battles carefully. Your partner is much more likely to come out and share if the atmosphere isn’t too intense.
💑ENTJ + ENFJ
  • Listen even when you are tired. Be patient with your partner’s long-winded or repetitious style.
  • Be sensitive to the impact other people’s problems have on your partner. Remember that everything has a personal context for ENFJs.
  • Be careful not to disregard the importance your partner places on how things look, especially if other people are involved.
  • Dote on your partner. Be tender and offer regular pampering.
  • Share your feelings frequently. Repeating how much you care is never overkill to an ENFJ.
  • Appreciate your partner for the meaning and insight he or she brings to your life.
💑ENTJ + INFJ
  • Be sensitive to your partner’s feelings. Recognize that he or she doesn’t like confrontation, so avoid angry outbursts.
  • Give your partner time to think and process his or her feelings.
  • Express your appreciation of all the nurturing things your partner does to deepen and cultivate your relationship.
  • Listen patiently and attentively. Resist the urge to bring the conversation back to you, fix the problem, or come up with a solution.
  • Recognize that your partner’s vision and values are very important and cannot easily be compromised. Don’t ask your partner to bend on those things.
  • Fight the urge to respond or especially to criticize your partner immediately. Think things through, then edit them for diplomacy.
  • Express your feelings. Say “I love you” a lot!
💑ENTJ + ENFP
  • Explain that you need to think emotional issues through privately and discuss them only after they make sense to you.
  • Be patient with and respect your partner’s feelings, even if you don’t share them.
  • Express your appreciation and affection spontaneously with messages, notes, cards, and little gifts.
  • Watch your tendency to put being right above being loving or understanding.
  • Respect your partner’s curiosity and tendency to change his or her mind. Encourage your partner to pursue his or her interests and spend time alone with friends.
  • Try to find situations where you can give in or back down. Remember that the process is just as important as the product.
💑ENTJ + INFP
  • Listen completely and attentively to your partner. Don’t interrupt or express impatience with his or her sometimes convoluted or repetitious stories.
  • Find points of agreement and areas of harmony before pointing out differences or disagreements.
  • Be supportive, and don’t rush to explain how your partner might fix his or her problems.
  • Be willing to change your plans or stop what you’re doing to participate in some of your partner’s spontaneous activities.
  • Watch your tendency to speak harshly of others and your need always to be right. Keep heated debates to a minimum.
  • Be gentle and express your feelings. Tell your partner how much you care about him or her.
  • Don’t force your partner to participate in more social events than he or she wants.

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