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ENFP

Relationship Tips for ENFPs

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Introducción

Relationships are a continual interplay of giving, receiving, and compromising. Although every MBTI type has its strengths and weaknesses, your type need not determine your behavior. Moving outside your comfort zone opens up the opportunity for healthy personal and interpersonal development. There are certain human needs that are universal and this makes it possible for any two types to connect with one another. If two people are willing to lower their defenses and genuinely attend to each other’s needs, then the relationship has a great chance for success and happiness.

Consejos por Tipo de Pareja

💑ENFP + ENFP
  • Take turns being responsible for necessary chores and keeping your lives organized.
  • Don’t dance around conflict. Push yourselves to bring things up. Stay honest and don’t be afraid to say how you really feel or what you wish or need to be different. Work slowly toward the center of the issue.
  • Be sure to give each other plenty of freedom and opportunities to socialize with friends or to do things separately. Maintain your own interests and friendships.
  • Surprise your partner. Share funny little stories or oddities to bring you closer when your relationship is strained.
  • Discuss matters of the heart, issues of spirituality, and other areas of personal growth.
  • Be tolerant of each other’s lack of follow-through. Work together to get boring but necessary tasks finished so they don’t fall on one person.
  • If possible, hire someone (bookkeeper, accountant, housekeeper, gardener, travel agent, mechanic) to help with some of the details.
💑ENFP + ESTJ
  • Try to be on time, say what you mean, and mean what you say. Don’t break dates.
  • Don’t neglect or ignore the traditions or rituals your partner wants to follow.
  • Try to get your facts straight or let your partner do the research, especially regarding big purchases, travel plans, and the like.
  • Be calm and clear when discussing a problem. Try not to exaggerate or get overly emotional.
  • Listen for the constructive elements in your partner’s suggestions. Remember that he or she is trying to help.
  • When your partner’s first reaction is negative, give him or her a little time and the opportunity to change his or her mind.
  • Compliment your partner on the many ways he or she makes life more comfortable. Thank your mate for the tangible things he or she does to show you love.
💑ENFP + ISTJ
  • Try not to get overinvolved in activities and commitments outside the home.
  • Ask your partner’s advice, then listen to him or her attentively and respectfully.
  • Offer physical affection and intimacy in the form of back rubs and sexual contact.
  • Don’t pressure your partner to speak before he or she has time to think. Don’t talk over your partner, try to remain calm, and don’t exaggerate.
  • Compliment your partner on tangible things such as his or her looks, achievements, or financial contributions.
  • When it comes to change, be patient and give your partner time to adjust. Respect your partner’s rituals and routines.
💑ENFP + ESFJ
  • Pitch in and complete chores without being asked (especially chores that are yours to do anyway).
  • Offer some factual background when suggesting a new approach. Patiently explain the potential benefits you and your partner will derive.
  • Try not to start talking in the middle of a thought. Clearly identify transitions or changes of subject.
  • Compliment your partner and express your appreciation for all that he or she does to make your home comfortable and warm. Give credit where credit is due.
  • Try to keep track of money and receipts and to record expenses. Make an effort to stick to a budget.
  • Give your partner some warning if you change plans or invite guests home. Allow him or her to adjust to these changes in plans.
💑ENFP + ISFJ
  • Before going to a social function together, give your partner as much specific information as possible about who will be there and what he or she can expect. Make sure to introduce your partner to people before you wander away.
  • Try to keep the house, especially common areas, tidy. Put things away.
  • Honor the commitments you make, especially engagements or activities that are important to your partner.
  • Acknowledge the considerate things your partner does to make your home a safe, comfortable place.
  • Remember special dates: anniversaries, birthdays, and holidays. Give presents that are aesthetically pleasing but also practical and useful.
  • Give your partner plenty of time to prepare for discussions, especially those that concern feelings. Don’t expect your mate to respond immediately.
  • Try to spend some time together without talking, such as reading in bed, watching TV, or taking a walk.
  • Respect your partner’s routines and rituals.
💑ENFP + ESTP
  • Try to participate in activities your partner enjoys.
  • Give your partner plenty of physical contact, such as back rubs and body massages.
  • Buy your partner toys. Surprise him or her with treats.
  • Try to enjoy your partner’s desire for spontaneous lovemaking.
  • Don’t overschedule your partner’s time or impose too many restrictions on his or her freedom.
  • Be clear, direct, and explicit, especially about things you want to change.
💑ENFP + ISTP
  • Resist the urge to coddle or smother your partner. Accept as fundamental his or her need to experience the adrenaline rush of life.
  • Try to wait some things out. Give your partner time to explain things in his or her own time.
  • Remember that to ISTPs, actions speak louder than words. Do thoughtful things and resist the urge to point them out to your partner.
  • Watch for the ways your partner shows you affection and be appreciative.
  • Listen completely and attentively when your partner speaks. Stop whatever else you’re doing and look at your partner.
  • Be calm and succinct. Try not to repeat yourself or go on and on about things.
💑ENFP + ESFP
  • Be patient with your partner’s impulsivity. Be willing to try some of the physical adventures and experiences your partner enjoys.
  • Work hard to be careful about details, money, receipts, and facts.
  • Express your affection in words and deeds. Give your partner plenty of physical affection.
  • Watch your tendency to rush through explanations or to generalize. Be patient with your partner’s attempts to understand your theories.
  • Clearly identify when you are changing subjects or making a transition.
💑ENFP + ISFP
  • Listen fully and completely. Give your partner your undivided attention.
  • Maintain close personal contact, especially when discussing unpleasant subjects or working out problems.
  • Initiate lots of loving, physical affection, including massages and holding hands.
  • Compliment your partner on his or her empathy for people and his or her devotion to relationships.
  • Encourage your partner’s desire to experience things firsthand and to learn by doing.
  • Don’t pressure your partner into going to social events with you.
💑ENFP + ENTJ
  • Initiate and complete chores around the house.
  • Tell others how much you respect and appreciate your partner’s accomplishments. Objective, third-party compliments are especially credible to ENTJs.
  • Watch your tendency to run late or get distracted and not fulfill promises.
  • Be direct, calm, and honest about how you feel. Don’t mince words or be less than totally honest.
  • Understand your partner’s strong passion for perfection. Try to finish jobs you take on.
💑ENFP + INTJ
  • Give him or her plenty of emotional and physical space. Don’t try to discuss things as soon as your mate gets home from work.
  • Respect your partner’s very independent nature and need for ritual and routine.
  • Don’t force your partner into too many social situations. Opt for small gatherings of close friends, or encourage participation in small discussion or book groups.
  • Try to learn more about the things that are of particular interest to your partner.
  • Do what you say you’ll do. Strive to be prompt and accountable.
  • Schedule time for the two of you to spend time together. Don’t expect your partner to drop what he or she is doing to play with you spontaneously.
💑ENFP + ENTP
  • Compliment your partner on his or her accomplishments, intelligence, and competence.
  • Be calm and direct in your communication, especially when discussing problems.
  • Encourage your partner to maintain friendships outside your relationship.
  • Ask your partner to help you see the logical consequences of your actions.
  • Never question your partner’s competence in public.
  • Take constructive criticism in the helpful spirit in which it is intended. Step back and try to be objective.
💑ENFP + INTP
  • Respect your partner’s privacy and need for plenty of uninterrupted time alone.
  • Listen completely to your partner’s ideas before jumping in to offer your ideas or to finish his or her sentences.
  • When your partner is sharing his or her thoughts, be careful not to assume that you know how he or she feels. Try not to interrupt.
  • Never force your partner into the spotlight or discuss private matters with other people without his or her permission.
  • Compliment your partner on his or her achievements and innovations. Recognize your partner’s good ideas and intellect.
  • Follow through on household chores that are your responsibility; don’t nag your partner when he or she forgets to do his or her chores.
💑ENFP + ENFJ
  • Listen to your partner’s feelings and reactions with concern and support. Don’t immediately point out why it might not make sense to feel the way he or she does.
  • Pull your own weight with household chores. Offer to help with or initiate projects that need doing. Pick up after yourself.
  • Try to keep track of money and take care of the possessions you and your partner own together.
  • Try not to change plans at the last minute. Give your partner as much warning as possible when you decide to bring people home.
  • Strive to follow through on more of the many projects you start.
💑ENFP + INFJ
  • Listen completely and with your full attention. Don’t finish your partner’s sentences or interrupt, even when you know where the conversation is going.
  • Be patient with your partner’s longer processing time. Respect his or her need to work and rework things.
  • Help out around the house. Finish some of your partner’s chores so he or she will be free to do something else.
  • Respect your partner’s need for peace and quiet, especially during and after busy social or work times.
  • Try to accommodate your partner’s schedules and keep a fairly neat and organized home.
  • Be willing to occasionally forgo some interesting outside activities to stay home and enjoy quiet time with your partner.
💑ENFP + INFP
  • Wait before offering advice, comments, or opinions.
  • Don’t put your partner on the spot publicly.
  • Sit in silence with your partner; enjoy the peace and quiet. Give your partner space even when you are doing things together.
  • Slow down. Use a quiet and gentle tone of voice.
  • Express your appreciation. Be reassuring during difficult times. (A silent hug is great.)
  • Be patient as your partner slowly becomes aware of what is bothering him or her. Just because you may immediately see the connection between things, your partner may need more time to think through what he or she wants to say.
  • Express your gratitude for being encouraged to be who you are.

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